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Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Karen, have you read Conundrum? Another courageous coming-out-of-hiding memoir, defiantly brave in its time (1974!)

Karen Solt's avatar

I haven't, Susan. Thanks for the recommendation! I just purchased it.

Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Oh, good! It's not just trans, it's transformative (or I found it so).

Karen Solt's avatar

I’m very interested in being a better ally and learning more about their experiences and how to support.

Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Such a difficult time, harder in some places than others.

Karen Solt's avatar

Like those who are serving. Unbelievable we are where we are.

Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Frightening. And who knows where we go next? In our family, we have a trans nephew, 19. He's in Washington State, where he is more protected. But what happens when his career track brings him to, say, Texas?

Felice Cohen's avatar

Eleanor and Hick. I read another last year too. Remarkable woman.

Karen Solt's avatar

Definitely. Will check this one out. Thanks!

Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Karen, you might also look here: https://susanalbert.com/loving-eleanor/ Yes, Hick was a remarkable woman, exactly what Eleanor needed, when she needed her. (After that, not so much, although they remained friends.)

Karen Solt's avatar

Oh my goodness...Susan. A book about Eleanor and Hick written by YOU! Also just purchased it and am looking forward!

Susan Wittig Albert's avatar

Well, thank you! I have a little series of books on hidden women. That one was the second. Not trying to sell books here, just pointing out that our interests in "hiding" are congruent.

Karen Solt's avatar

Right up my alley, for sure! I appreciate being theme connected. And I want to read any book about women in hiding, so please don’t shy away from recommending your books.

Felice Cohen's avatar

Excellent reminder, and harrowing and brave story. And i just started reading a book about E. Roosevelt!

Karen Solt's avatar

Thanks Sis, And a courageous woman (ER) for sure! Which book?

Claudia Marseille's avatar

Wonderful and interesting post! Yes, learning to face fear, however it shows up in our different lives, is the work. XO

Karen Solt's avatar

Thank you and yes, no one is immune. XO

Karen Solt's avatar

Received in email: What a beautiful article, Karen, so sad about Z-Man and crew. :(

Thanks again for sharing.

Kristin Kaye's avatar

What a story Chief! I can't imagine the toll it took to spend so many years constantly engaging your military bearing. And having to share devastating news to heartbroken families. You've conjured so much courage in so many ways I'd say you have a PhD in courage .Thanks for such a thoughtful post.